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Bryan Adams: An Unrequited Love Story

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I love Bryan Adams. Not in the same way that I love my husband or that I loved Leif Garrett (gawd) when I was a wide-eyed teen, but I love Bryan Adams in a different sort of way. Last night, hubby took me to the The Fillmore Miami Beach Jackie Gleason Theater to see Bryan Adams in concert. Last summer my hubby took me to Boston to see Bryan Adams in concert. A few years ago, my hubby took me to the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach to see Bryan Adams in concert. My hubby understands my unrequited love affair with Bryan Adams and is okay with it, even a little amused by it.

IMG_4808What’s cool about Bryan Adams is that he is just a cool guy. His edgy guitar-playing rocker vibe makes him tough enough for guys to appreciate, and his seductive lyrics and earnest love songs make him soft enough for us ladies to want to drink in the romance. It’s a win-win combination for both sexes.

Last night at the elegant, art deco Jackie Gleason Theater, Bryan was dressed in jeans, a black sport coat and white button-down shirt. He looked sharp. Among the opulent crystal chandeliers and mostly middle-aged folk of the audience, he fit in. He’s classic, classy, edgy and so down to earth. He thanked us for spending Saturday night with him and said that in a world that’s so controlled, you can let go and sing as loud as you want to at a rock concert. Truth. My $18 jumbo glass of second-rate concert hall cabernet and Bryan’s encouragement gave me a fabulous and boisterous singing voice, and just enough rhythm to keep up. ha ha

IMG_4806Bryan doesn’t know it, but we go way back. His song, Cuts Like a Knife, was wildly popular when I was a teen going through a break-up with my first love. Every time I hear that song, I have a specific memory of walking down my neighborhood street with my BFF, discussing teen-aged angst and ambitious dreams. My first love and I got back together more than once, but the song is sort of an instant flashback to that time in my life, and definitely not an unwelcome one as I had a pretty good time being a teenager. Any song from the Cuts Like a Knife album, which my younger brother and I practically wore out on our record player (we knew every word to every song), sends me on an immediate and sentimental journey back to a very happy place, and it makes me smile.

IMG_1978I feel like I’m growing old with Bryan Adams. Last night, he mentioned how thankful he is to Ozzy Osbourne and bands like Journey and Fleetwood Mac for allowing him the chance to be their opening acts back in the day. Then, during my college years, came the MTV music videos in the days of big hair, shoulder pads, and neon-colored and/or black leather clothing. And now here we are, three decades later, Bryan’s thinning hair slicked back and mine tinged with gray. My favorite part about Bryan Adams is that he’s unpretentious, unaffected, authentic – but still a free spirit with his raw, raspy talent – and, that over the years, he did not allow fame and fortune to change him into an entitled, cocky, man-diva. He’s still real, he’s one of us, and he just keeps getting better with age, like (some) men seem to do.  ; )

His unmistakable presence and familiar voice were really remarkable at the end of the show. The band gave their final bow after the encore, then Bryan stayed on stage, the lights dimmed again, and he just simply sang to us, unaccompanied by anyone or anything except for his acoustic guitar and his harmonica. He sang songs that he wrote for movies but that never made it there, he sang a few quiet love songs that were so absolutely beautiful and heartfelt but that were not record-breakers or well-known. He shared sweet memories and engaged us in lively sing-a-longs, some with our cell-phone flashlights held high like a thousand candles lighting up the dark (the days of lighters – remember? – are long gone). It felt so intimate, like being with an old friend, as we sang and swayed and remembered.IMG_1986

The sound of Bryan Adams’s gravelly voice will always draw me in. I don’t know all of the reasons why. But I do know that I will continue to love his voice, his lyrics, his concerts, his new stuff, and his old stuff. When I hear his music, I feel at peace, like someone very familiar to me is calling me home to settle in for a minute, to embrace all that is good and fun and memorable in my life.

What was lovely about today: A slight wine hangover this morning did not stop me from accomplishing what I needed to do today. What was lovely about today was my husband who accompanied me on errands and then a quick grocery run. Even though he hates to shop (unless it’s online where he excels as a shopper ha ha), he still makes it fun, makes me laugh, and carries all the bags. My good-natured hubby who doesn’t mind my unrequited love affair with Bryan Adams and who went shopping with me this afternoon is what was lovely about today.

A Weekend in Boston: The Best Surprise of 2015

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Last night, as we rolled in the new year, I was thinking back on the good things that had happened in 2015, and Boston was one of the best. Last Spring, my husband told me that we were going somewhere in July, that I’d like it, and he wasn’t telling me where to until we were on our way. With some careful hints provided, I surmised which quadrant of our country we’d be visiting (key for what to pack for this Florida girl who needs a sweater at roughly 68 degrees), and that I didn’t need to pack anything dressy.

So off we went one Wednesday morning last July, delightfully en route to MIA with two carry-on bags in tow. I still didn’t know where we were going. But then I got a text message as we headed down I95, and there was the answer in all of its bold-type glory: American Airlines was texting me to inform me that my flight from MIA to BOS was on time. Boston! We’re headed to Boston! Cool! I’ve never been!

It was perfect timing, too. My 15-year-old was headed to Boston that day also, but on a different flight and with his Boy Scout troop, where they would ultimately caravan to Maine for a much anticipated summer canoeing and camping high adventure trip. And, in an unprecedented move, I had allowed my 17-year-old to fly to a small town in Pennsylvania with one of his best buddies, Riley, to visit with Riley’s family. So with my boys in the capable and trustworthy hands of Scout leaders and Pennsylvania grandparents, I knew that they were safe and happy and life was good. Hubby and I were free to roam about. Boston, here we come!

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Breathe in the salt air. Exhale.

My husband, of champagne taste, had booked us a nice room at a beautiful, old brick, kind of fancy hotel in the Seaport district. It didn’t take us long to change out of our flight clothes and walk down to the wharf, where we settled in at a super little waterfront bar and grill, ordered a local craft beer and a fish sandwich from our patio table, and planned our next few days. Breathe in the salt air. Exhale.

 

Being the planner that I am and usually knowing exactly where/when/how before I get to any destination, this trip, being a surprise, did not allow me to pre-mastermind. I was a little out of my comfort zone. But, guess what? It turned out to be the absolute best and most relaxing vacation ever, and I feel like we did and saw exactly what we would have done and seen had we pre-planned. Lesson learned: Just go with the flow and it all turns out okay! Let it go!

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Bryan Adams. I love him. I love my husband more, though, for taking this awesome picture!

The reason my husband brought me to Boston (surprise!!) was to attend the Peter Frampton and Cheap Trick concert that weekend, and also (more surprises!!) to attend the Bryan Adams Reckless 30th Anniversary concert that very night! I was overjoyed, to say the least. Peter Frampton, Bryan Adams, and I go way, way back! I like Cheap Trick, and they were a bonus to me, along for the ride with Peter Frampton. Conveniently, our lovely hotel was within walking distance of the harborfront outdoor ampitheater, our seats were within the first few rows of the stage, and I actually caught a few guitar pics thrown into the audience by the Cheap Trick guy, which I excitedly saved for my 15-year-old who is taking guitar lessons and had caught a few of his own guitar pics at a Cheap Trick concert once.

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Peter doesn’t even know that his music was part of our wedding soundtrack.

In between the concerts, we enjoyed Boston to the fullest. What a beautiful, wonderful city! We picked up some touristy guide books, walked to the metro station and bought passes, then tooled around Boston for the entire long weekend, drawing on our free spirits and using public transportation and our feet to get from Point A to Point B.

We walked the Freedom Trail. Wow. That was a fascinating, full day event as we followed the 2.5-mile red brick path through the city, starting at Boston Commons and ending at the USS Constitution. In between, we visited Paul Revere’s house, Sam Adams’ grave, Faneuil Hall, Old North Church, home of the “one if by land, two if by sea” lantern signals, the plain Puritan’s church, the majestic State House, and more. This walking tour brought history to life and we thoroughly enjoyed the day.

 

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Hubby raising the flag on the USS Constitution

Duly noting that Paul Revere’s house was near Little Italy, and always visiting Little Italy in any and every town we go to, we made our way back toward Paul’s house, selected a restaurant from an abundance of choices, and enjoyed a scrumptious and oversized gnocchi and lasagna dinner with house Chianti served by a lucky someone’s Italian auntie.

Another afternoon was spent at the Sam Adams Brewery for a free tour and beer tasting. We took the metro to a station in a somewhat suburban area, then walked a half mile or so to the brewery, perched on top of a hill and kind of obscure, but full of beer-drinking life. Oh for the love of beer! After the necessary tour of the brewing tanks and after learning all I will ever need to know about hops, malt and barley, we were taken to a tasting room for the prize, pitcher after pitcher after pitcher of different brews that we shared with three other couples, each brew proudly presented by an exuberant 20-something who had quit college to pursue his passion for beer. It was a grand time and we were properly sauced. No surprise here, but we were then herded into the gift shop. Ha ha. It was an eventful shopping experience.

 

We exited the gift shop and hopped onto a trolley that was headed to a pub. That’s all we knew: There was a trolley and it was headed to a pub. We got on. This was a very special red trolley with a disco ball, a stripper pole, and Micheal Jackson music blaring at ear-splitting volume, piloted by an entertaining trolley driver with a megaphone who missed his calling as an actor. He brought us to Doyle’s Cafe, a pub dating back to 1882 and home of a beautiful, handcrafted woodwork bar with stained glass artwork, abundant taps, and a delicious lobster roll sandwich. After indulging then settling down a little, we found a bus station that took us to a metro station that took us back to the metro station by our swanky hotel at the Seaport.

 

 

One of my favorite days was spent in beautiful little Salem. We got up early to catch a train that took us to Salem, about 40 minutes away. Once there, we happened upon a famous landmarky breakfast place and inexplicably scored the best seat in the house, in a little window alcove with great people-watching potential.

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The House of Seven Gables

We rode in a trolley tour to get an idea of what was around, then settled in at the Salem Witch Museum where we watched a very well done presentation and explanation of the Salem witches and witch trials. We toured Nathaniel Hawthorne’s famous, gorgeous House of Seven Gables and vowed to read the book.

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Saturday afternoon peace in Salem

By three o’clock in the afternoon, we were sitting at a waterfront restaurant checking out their beer list. That’s the best part about vacations…our only task at hand was to peruse the menu and to take in the view, and then ultimately to walk the few blocks to the station by 6:00 for the last train back to Boston. Easy. Carefree. Peaceful.

 

The concerts were great, the city was fabulous, and our time there was relaxing and fun and memorable. Planning a surprise trip like that is probably one of the most romantic things anyone has ever done for me, and I appreciated and relished every single minute of my husband’s heartfelt efforts. By Sunday night, we were home and so were the boys, all within a few hours of each other. My 17-year-old enjoyed the woods and waterfalls in the small Pennsylvania town of Riley’s grandparents, my 15-year-old enjoyed his canoe trip and Maine lobster feasts with the Scouts, and we certainly enjoyed our stay in Boston. That long weekend in July was definitely one of the best parts of 2015 for all of us!

 

What was lovely about today: The pork roast, potatoes and sauerkraut slow-cooking in the crockpot is the loveliest thing about today, I think. What’s better on the first day of the new year than to smell dinner cooking all day long as I pack away the remnants of Christmas 2015, reflect on the year past, and look forward to all the great things that 2016 is going to bring?